Generosity Exposes Users…Just So Y’all Know. Whenever I enter into any kind of connection, whether a friendship, an acquaintance, or otherwise, I lead with generosity, genuine kindness, and respect. I...
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Relationships can reveal some of the best parts of who we are and expose the places where we still have growing to do. Here, we explore love, friendship, boundaries, difficult dynamics, and the clarity that comes when you stop abandoning yourself to keep other people comfortable. Because healthy relationships don’t require losing yourself to maintain them.
Generosity Exposes Users…Just So Y’all Know. Whenever I enter into any kind of connection, whether a friendship, an acquaintance, or otherwise, I lead with generosity, genuine kindness, and respect. I...
Read MoreContrarian Friends Are Draining. You Should Probably Dump Them. As I mature, I realize that time itself does not give someone a permanent place in your life. Unfortunately, some “friends”...
Read MoreNever Forget How They Made You Feel If you stumbled upon this post while searching for a message that validates your desire to return to a particular relationship, this post...
Read MoreOne great thing about social media is that it can reaffirm that our experiences are not always as unique as they may feel. Many people have experienced the same or...
Read MoreI had what was once a great friendship with a nice guy I met in 2012. We were 26 and 24 years old at the time. He was just coming...
Read MoreI wrote a post titled “The Origin of People Pleasing.” In it, I identified a deep, unconscious wound from an experience in the third grade that later showed up in...
Read MoreA former classmate from my first semester of law school visited me the other day. I had actually run into him at Food City over the winter holiday, and we...
Read MoreLiving alone as an adult with no children is top tier elite. It’s hard to put into words just how awesome it is. Imagine how awesome it would be if...
Read MoreLaw school is an environment that forces self-regulation. Either you discipline yourself and complete the work required, or you are removed for poor performance. Either you conduct yourself as a...
Read MoreWhen you step away from a person, a place, or a pattern, you remove the noise of proximity. Without constant contact and the emotional momentum of “us,” you finally get...
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